Wednesday, June 29, 2011

The Meaning of Christmas, Part III

Tonight Jane chose "The Berenstain Bears Meet Santa Bear" for her story.  In this typically sacharine Berenstain Bears tale, Sister Bear first makes a long and greedy Christmas list, but, under her brother's careful tutelage, comes to realize that Christmas is really all about giving.
This book reminded of a past debate between Claire and Margot on the topic of gift-giving - and let us just say that Margot's approach would not be well-received by Santa Bear.  As Jane and I talked, it became clear to me that Jane may be following in Margot's footsteps on this issue:

Me:  "So, what do you think about Sister Bear's list?"

Jane:  "It's not good.  It has too many things on it and Santa might think that she's greedy - then he won't bring her anything.  It's not good to be greedy."

Me:  "Right.  It's important not to be greedy.  Did this story make you think of anything else relating to gifts?"

Jane:  "Umm. . . what?"

Me:  "About what the bears did with their gifts?"

Jane:  "They asked for them?"

Me:  "Well, yes - they did ask for and get gifts.  But there's something else.  If you don't receive a gift, you . . . "

Jane:  "You cry?"